The bond between a mother and child is very special. And, for me Mother’s Day holds a lot of significance. I became a mother for the first time on Mother’s Day, ten years ago, when my elder son, Siddharth, was born on the eve of Mother’s Day. The feeling of becoming a mother is so special and so powerful that no words can describe it. You feel this little life inside of you and wait in anticipation. You squeal with every kick, and you worry sick hoping your baby will be born healthy. You go through the travails of pregnancy, and it is crazy tough with all the nausea, discomfort et al. But, you forget all the pain and inconvenience when this little bundle of joy is given into your arms. And, you see this perfect creation of yours — the little helpless baby who looks at you with wide eyes and those fleeting smiles to lead his way into this unpredictable world. I remember the day crystal clear, as if it happened just yesterday.

Being my first born, Siddharth has always been very special to me. I see so much of myself in him, my own childhood struggles and my own qualities reflected in him. He is my sensitive son, very responsible, intelligent and trustworthy. There was an incident that happened a couple of years back when he really saved himself and his younger brother through his own gumption. I wouldn’t want to revisit that incident because it is truly painful. But, his father and I will always owe him a debt of gratitude for his presence of mind and quick memory. I love the openness that Sid and I share. As he grows older, he is becoming my friend. He discusses and shares things with me, and he cares for my opinion. I feel a special connect with him!From a carefree couple, we become parents. And, over umpteen feedings, diaper changes, waking up at night, helplessly putting him to bed and watching him get up just when you lie down, the deep bellied laughs and the baby gurgles, – life takes a turn towards an amazing journey of adventure, where we all grow and bond together as a family. At every juncture, it is so much fun to see this child of yours, who has so many of your and your husband’s physical and emotional qualities, evolve into an individual of his own. It is the biggest joy, which nature has given to parents to nurture, evolve and mold a life right from scratch. As parents, this special moment will always bind us together in a way very few other memories can. My husband has been with me every step of the way: holding my hand, wiping my tears when I was too tired or frustrated, and sharing the joys and sorrows of parenthood. We never had a nanny, and I really had no other support at home. I am pretty proud of my husband and I for doing it on our own.

Going through his pictures, I feel so overwhelmed that this chit of a boy, this tiny cherub, is now going to be all of 10 years old! He is just a few inches shorter than me and has a shoe size of 6 now :)!

Your mom and dad are proud of you, son. You bring immense joy and happiness to our lives. And, I hope that you always stay the wonderful human being that you already are. Wish you a very Happy Birthday on the 11th!

Tujhe suraj kahoon ya chanda, tujhe deep kahoon yaa tara,
mera naam karega roshan, jag mein mera raj dulaara!

The blog post I posted a couple of days back got deleted mysteriously. I copy pasted comments from a retrieved copy. Really weird!

96 responses to “That Lovely Mother’s Day”

  1. Jas Avatar

    Double whammy 🙂 A very happy birthday to Sid and to you for bringing up a fine son. And now that he is prepared to enter the teens, you should gear up too 🙂

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks, Jas :). To tell you the truth I am shivering in my boots as he enters his terrible teens :). Thanks for the lovely words and wishes.

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  2. Swathi Shenoy Avatar

    A wonderful post Rachna 🙂 A very Happy 13th to Siddharth 🙂

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks Swathi. I will convey your wishes to him. 🙂

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  3. Parul Avatar

    Lovely post Rachana..It was such a delight reading this one!
    Wishing Sid a happy 11th 🙂

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks, Parul. This was written 2 years ago. He is 13 today. 🙂

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  4. Sid Avatar

    What a perfect day to revisit this post.! Loved it, Rachna

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks, Sid.

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  5. elly stornebrink Avatar

    Ah, such a sweet and lovely post and tribute to your son and in part your dear husband too! 🙂 And oh, what double joy for you being a mother on Mother’s Day of all things! 🙂 By the way, the photo of you and your son is lovely too – he looks sweet! ❤

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks so much, Elly. You picked up the essence of the post beautifully. I love that picture too though it is 3 years old now. 🙂 Thanks so much.

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  6. Shaivi Sharma Avatar

    i have just stepped into motherhood and ur memories of the sudden transformation from a couple to parents got me in the “me too” mode!

    Thank for sharing!

    Happy Mother’s Day!

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    1. Rachna Avatar

      Thanks, Shaivi. Welcome to the rollercoaster ride. 🙂

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