Being my first born, Siddharth has always been very special to me. I see so much of myself in him, my own childhood struggles and my own qualities reflected in him. He is my sensitive son, very responsible, intelligent and trustworthy. There was an incident that happened a couple of years back when he really saved himself and his younger brother through his own gumption. I wouldn’t want to revisit that incident because it is truly painful. But, his father and I will always owe him a debt of gratitude for his presence of mind and quick memory. I love the openness that Sid and I share. As he grows older, he is becoming my friend. He discusses and shares things with me, and he cares for my opinion. I feel a special connect with him!From a carefree couple, we become parents. And, over umpteen feedings, diaper changes, waking up at night, helplessly putting him to bed and watching him get up just when you lie down, the deep bellied laughs and the baby gurgles, – life takes a turn towards an amazing journey of adventure, where we all grow and bond together as a family. At every juncture, it is so much fun to see this child of yours, who has so many of your and your husband’s physical and emotional qualities, evolve into an individual of his own. It is the biggest joy, which nature has given to parents to nurture, evolve and mold a life right from scratch. As parents, this special moment will always bind us together in a way very few other memories can. My husband has been with me every step of the way: holding my hand, wiping my tears when I was too tired or frustrated, and sharing the joys and sorrows of parenthood. We never had a nanny, and I really had no other support at home. I am pretty proud of my husband and I for doing it on our own.
Going through his pictures, I feel so overwhelmed that this chit of a boy, this tiny cherub, is now going to be all of 10 years old! He is just a few inches shorter than me and has a shoe size of 6 now :)!
Your mom and dad are proud of you, son. You bring immense joy and happiness to our lives. And, I hope that you always stay the wonderful human being that you already are. Wish you a very Happy Birthday on the 11th!
Tujhe suraj kahoon ya chanda, tujhe deep kahoon yaa tara,
mera naam karega roshan, jag mein mera raj dulaara!




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